As the holiday season approaches, host families have a unique opportunity to make their international students feel included and valued while celebrating the diverse traditions observed in the United States during December. From Christmas and Hanukkah to Kwanzaa and secular New Year celebrations, the holidays provide a rich tapestry of cultures and beliefs that can be shared and respected.
Here are some thoughtful ways to navigate the season with inclusivity and joy:
- Learn About Your Student’s Traditions
Start by asking your international student if they celebrate any specific holidays in December or January. They may have unique traditions from their home country or family. This conversation not only helps you learn about their culture but also makes them feel seen and respected.
- Share American Holiday Traditions
Explain the holidays your family celebrates and their significance. Whether it’s decorating a Christmas tree, lighting a menorah, or attending community events, involve your student in a way that feels comfortable for them.
- Be Mindful of Beliefs
Not every international student may want to actively participate in your family’s traditions, especially if they differ from their own cultural or religious practices. Respect their choice while inviting them to observe or learn if they’re curious.
- Explore Community Events
Check your local community for multicultural holiday events. Many towns host interfaith or cultural festivals, giving everyone a chance to experience traditions from around the world. Bringing your student to such events can be a great way to bridge cultural understanding.
- Create Inclusive Celebrations
Consider incorporating elements from your student’s culture into your holiday festivities. For example, you might prepare a traditional dish from their home country or set aside time for them to share a story or activity related to their holiday traditions.
- Recognize the Importance of Non-Participation
For some students, December might not hold any significant holidays, or they may prefer not to celebrate. Create an environment where they can enjoy the season in their own way, whether that’s engaging in non-holiday-related activities or simply relaxing.
- Celebrate Shared Values
Regardless of traditions or beliefs, December is often a time for universal values like kindness, gratitude, and togetherness. Focus on these shared ideals to create a welcoming and warm atmosphere.
- End the Year with Reflection
Host a family reflection or goal-setting activity to close out the year. This can be a secular, inclusive way to bond while fostering a sense of community.
By being intentional and open-minded, host families can create meaningful connections with their international students during this holiday season. The goal isn’t to celebrate everything or avoid specific traditions—it’s to foster understanding, respect, and joy that everyone can share.
Let this December be a time of learning, connection, and cultural exchange for your family and your international student!